The Lovers

The Lovers

DVD - 2017
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Mary and Michael are a long married, dispassionate couple who are both in the midst of serious affairs. On the brink of calling it quits, a spark between them suddenly reignites, leading them into an impulsive romance.
Audience: Not rated.
Publisher: [United States] : A24 Films, [2017]
Branch Call Number: DVD FIC Lover
Characteristics: 1 videodisc (94 min.) sound, color ; 4 3/4 inches.
video file,DVD video
Language Note: English dialogue; Spanish subtitles; subtitled for the deaf and hard of hearing (SDH).


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Jun 21, 2018


How is it somebody writes boring crap like this? How is it somebody wants to direct boring crap like this? In this case, they are one and the same. Worst of all, why does somebody commit money to pay people to actually make a boring crap movie like this? This movie would have been better titles as "The Losers" or "The Most Boring People You Never Want To Know" ... you've been warned. It's even worse than "The Snowman"...

Jan 11, 2018

A film with no redeeming qualities. Even the soundtrack was bad.

Jan 04, 2018

"The Lovers" is a movie I would have liked to like better. It had some redeeming qualities. It was too slow with too much dead space or filler. Three stars are generous for this movie.

Dec 29, 2017

The Lovers
Well. I just didn’t like it that much. I didn’t like Tracy Letts (Michael). I thought he was a self absorbed middle aged man, not good looking or interesting, playing for a younger paramour. And Debra Winger (Mary) seemed like she was bored w/Michael, which makes sense to me. Family, fidelity and trying to imagine the future differently than the trajectory they were on. I thought their son, Tyler Ross, was a self inflicted nuisance, uncaring, and unsympathetic dweeb.

Dec 12, 2017

I wanted to like this movie as I have loved Debra Winger for years, but I get tired of films that make sexual passion the most important feature in lives and relationships. Meanwhile children and friends are left in the dysfunction and sexual dust. Cannot recommend. Kristi & Abby Tabby

Dec 10, 2017

The world is not only made up of 20-something hipsters. I'd like to acknowledge this movie for recognizing this fact. Most of us are older than that. We have boring jobs in cubicles and our marriages may have become stale. This movie explores the life of a married couple well above 50. They are each having extramarital affairs. They are cordial to each other at home, but the passion is gone from their marriage. Or is it? They manage to rediscover each other, but is it too late? Their son comes home for the weekend and sees only hypocrisy. Is he right? Debra Winger is brilliant as the wife and is definitely the sympathetic character here. Tracy Letts as the husband is less sympathetic as his lies know no bounds.

Dec 05, 2017

First 30 minutes: old married couple walks on egg shells plotting their affairs
Middle 30 minutes: old married couple having sex.
Last 30 minutes: old married couple splits; son whines a lot and throws stuff.

The most revealing thing about this movie is that outside of Game Of Thrones, Aiden Gillen (Little Fingers) is a terrible actor. I've thought this before having seen him in a few other things but this performance confirms it. He actually loses and regains his accent from sentence to sentence and the director, I guess, didn't notice.

Nov 28, 2017

I checked this movie out to see Debra Winger. She is aging just like the rest of us.
Gave this a fair rating. She was great in "Officer and a Gentleman, "Terms of Endearment"

Nov 20, 2017

A social drama on what drove gray divorces and the 25-year-itch as a couple of empty nesters cheated on each other with their new "true" loves. In this case, it took four to tangle. The comedy component was good on how hard they had to work for their trysts at home and work. From Pew Research: In 2015, for every 1,000 married persons ages 50 and older, 10 divorced – up from five in 1990, according to data from the National Center for Health Statistics and U.S. Census Bureau. Among those ages 65 and older, the divorce rate has roughly tripled since 1990, reaching six people per 1,000 married persons in 2015.

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Nov 20, 2017

Ending love song for any age "It Must be Love:"

I never thought I'd miss you
Half as much as I do
And I never thought I'd feel this way
The way I feel
About you
As soon as I wake up
Every night, every day
I know that it's you I need
To take the blues away
It must be love, love, love,
It must be love, love, love,
Nothing more, nothing less
Love is the best
How can it be that we can
Say so much without words?
Bless you and bless me
Bless the bees
And the birds
I've got to be near you
Every night, every day
I couldn't be happy
Any other way
It must be love, love, love,

Nov 20, 2017

The cheating husband:
Please stop crying, Lucy. Please. Hey. I love you. Come on. I still... I have to get back to work, I'll get in trouble. You understand, right?
- Yeah.
Okay. Come on. I'll come to you right after work.
The cheating wife:
You got to tell me that this is true, that this is it for real this time, because... You know, I can't take it otherwise, I really can't.
-Come on. It's true, I promise. I'm gonna tell him, promise.

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