The Ethical Slut

The Ethical Slut

A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures

Book - 2009 | Second edition, updated & expanded.
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The essential guide for singles and couples who want to explore polyamory in ways that are ethically and emotionally sustainable.

For anyone who has ever dreamed of love, sex, and companionship beyond the limits of traditional monogamy, this groundbreaking guide navigates the infinite possibilities that open relationships can offer. Experienced ethical sluts Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy dispel myths and cover all the skills necessary to maintain a successful and responsible polyamorous lifestyle--from self-reflection and honest communication to practicing safe sex and raising a family. Individuals and their partners will learn how to discuss and honor boundaries, resolve conflicts, and to define relationships on their own terms.

"I couldn't stop reading it, and I for one identify as an ethical slut. This is a book for anyone interested in creating more pleasure in their lives . . . a complete guide to improving any style of relating, from going steady to having an extended family of sexual friends." --Betty Dodson, PhD, author of Sex for One
Publisher: Berkeley, Calif. : Celestial Arts, [2009]
Edition: Second edition, updated & expanded.
Copyright Date: ©2009
ISBN: 9781587613371
Branch Call Number: 306.84230973 Eas 2009
Characteristics: vii, 288 pages ; 23 cm
Additional Contributors: Hardy, Janet W. - Author


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Sep 12, 2016

A standard for a long time regarding polyamory, but not a favorite of mine. Much prefer 'More than Two', or 'Opening Up'. Dossie is an incredible author, check her other reads, like 'The Bottoming Book'.

Aug 03, 2016

A great read! I too discovered this book after reading Sex at Dawn. I found myself drawn to this book. It was easy to read, made sense, offered modern insight and advice about jealousy, and it got to the point. A lot of advice contained in this book is also applicable to many other aspects in life.

May 09, 2011

I highly recommend this book for all to read. I discovered it after reading "Sex at Dawn" and wanted to explore relationship constructs outside of long-term monogamy, and was delighted by its wealth of practical information, humorous writing style, and direct nature. Even if you aren't keen on open relationships, it is an excellent resource for all who seek successful partnerships with those they love.

Mar 01, 2011

Such an amazing book! Loaded with practical advice on communication, conflict and disempowering jealousy; really valuable info for any kind of relationship. Plus it's just generally a really interesting and fun read.


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Aug 03, 2016

"The world is very fond of twos: black and white, male and female, mind and body, good and bad. These pairs, we all learn, are opposed: there's the right way and the wrong way, and our task is to do battle to defend the right and destroy the wrong.

...some people believe that anyone who enjoys sex outside of marriage, or a kind of marriage that's different from theirs, must be attacking their marriage. Anything that is different must be opposed, must be the enemy."


Aug 03, 2016

"It's a very good idea for everyone to learn to live single - to figure out how to get your needs met without being partnered, so you don't find yourself seeking a partner to fill needs that you ought to fill yourself."

---Very wise advice!

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